IF you follow Jesus and you haven’t been baptized, surely you must understand this is a big red flag! You should be excited about getting baptized.
Furthermore, and once again, we don’t baptize babies, infant baptism is not recognized in the Bible. Baptism is something we do you to you when you have made a decision to follow Jesus, and babies aren’t old enough to make such a decision. The parents cannot make the decision for a child. Furthermore we do baptisms in front of people, there have to be witnesses. It is not a private event.